Why Men Who Dress Sloppy Lack Self Respect?

Men who usually dress sloppy all the time by wearing torn clothes and not properly ironing and tucking in their clothes are actually placed at the backseat when it comes to being greeted in a respectful manner because of their overall appearance.

People naturally respect men who take care of their appearance and those who look clean, elegant and always put in an effort to look decent even during weekends. Men who want to be respected do not need to be rich for people to honour them, they just need to dress well and have a positive mentality in life which is a good thing.

This blog post will produce only 3 key reasons and explain under each reason why men who dress sloppy lack respect and people are unlikely to respect a man who dress poorly.

Dressing sloppy is a catalyst for underestimating yourself as a man

Men must be aware of this real fact that dressing sloppy is a catalyst for looking down on yourself and once a man starts to underestimate himself, it leads to self-doubt, lack of critical thinking, fear of failure, hatred and the feeling that you are not good enough in life. Usually, the way you dress gives people hints about what type of man you are.

It is imperative that men whether young or old start to acknowledge themselves by actually dressing the part and it does not require suits or fancy dress codes but a decent looking outfit like a business casual style that is neat and it includes pieces such as: white T-shirts, blazers, jeans or solid chino pants as well as boots or sneakers for footwear.

If a man does not dress the part, he surely is underestimating his potential to do great things. It starts with the little things gentlemen such as dressing the part all the time to witness total confidence in your abilities and to be positive about your goals no matter how tough it is in life.

To change the way you look at yourself, men must dress the part so that they can adopt self-respect and go forward in life. Life is not sunshine and rainbows hence men must think very highly of themselves and dress up to be able to face the challenges life throws on you because this life is not easy gentlemen.

Men who dress sloppy are immature plus they will not sacrifice for success (Only a man who is mature will take success seriously)

The second reason why men who dress sloppy lack self-respect for people and themselves, it is because this habit of dressing like you don’t care shows how immature you are. A mature man will know that they way you dress says a lot about you in front of strangers.

The reality is that life will not wait for you gents and it is key to take note of how you dress. It is said that making sacrifices is one way to get successful and indeed that is correct. When you take your life seriously as a man, you know are stepping closer to the hard part and that is to make sacrifices. It is not a walk in the park to wake up and decide to be successful. The journey to success needs a persistent man and a man who will sacrifice his time and money if needed in the process.

Therefore, men need to adopt and practice this quote that says “DRESS UP AND SHOW UP” because it will go a long way in ensuring you succeed at making sacrifices. The rewards will be great at the end of the day.

Sloppy dressed men have no good manners (Especially those who drink lots of alcohol)

A legend by the name of Tom Ford once said “Dressing well is a form of good manners” and I agree with the man. A man who puts his best effort in dressing eloquently all the time is actually perceived as a well mannered man. Thus, are advised to always try to dress the part to be able to be seen as men with great manners that consist of respect, honesty and integrity.

I believe men who don’t drink are usually the ones who will respect people and speak nicely to them like a mature educated man. Ever notice how men who drink speak anyhow?? Think about that gentlemen.

Do read the following quote By Tom Ford using the link provided

https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/7627293-dressing-well-is-a-form-of-good-manners

Also, do visit the Fashion Beans site using this link – https://www.fashionbeans.com/article/best-quotes-mens-fashion-style/

Conclusion

To wrap this blog post up, men must always remember that looking good is not self importance but self respect and the following need to be considered gentlemen:

  • Sloppy dressed men have no good manners hence it is advisable that men dress neatly and tuck in their shirts because first impressions matter
  • Sloppy dressed men are childish or immature
  • Sloppy dressed men look down on their abilities to succeed in life

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2 thoughts on “Why Men Who Dress Sloppy Lack Self Respect?

  1. Ritish Sharma's avatar

    I don’t necessarily think a ripped t-shirt or untucked shirt equals a lack of self-respect. There are plenty of successful, confident men who have a more relaxed style. Steve Jobs comes to mind. [Just another point of view]

    But this is an interesting take on dressing habits.

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    1. Mthobisi Magagula's avatar

      Good point Ritish. I guess you are right about men who have a more relaxed style such as the Legend Steve Jobs but it depends on how people perceive that look.

      For example, other people especially old one will think a man who wears a dress shirt untucked does not respect the society. Just my point of view or opinion about sloppy dressing.

      Plus, this blog post is indeed an interesting take even I as the Creator of this blog am impressed with my thoughts.

      Thank you brother for sharing your comment. Have a great day man!!

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