I strongly am against the thought of using clothing as a way to compete with other men or to outshine them which is immature and baseless. Clothes are suppose to make you feel good, comfortable and confident about yourself. Once you start placing competition in the middle of the outfits you will not enjoy yourself and your style because your mind will be attempting to be perfect than the other guys who shop at expensive stores.
1. Dress for yourself and not for everybody
This is one logical reason why you wear clothes no matter the background , status, financial position, age and even gender. There is a quote that says “You don’t find a style, a style finds you”, so find your personal style and let go of the useless competition.
2. Competition creates hatred rather create happiness and know other stylish men
Competition in all its sense at the end of the day stems hatred in each other as one person will win and the other will lose thus bitterness occurs. Rather associate with other guys and create happy memories and friendships that will yield a success in building relationships that can be long term. It is such a great feeling to be in unity with people who have the same fire and passion such as yourself.
3. If you can’t beat them join them in style
This simple means if you know you have no taste in style and outfits and the other guys do dress the part all the time , why not join them? Learn from them and you will be amazed at yourself and you will let go of the competition game in your head and be like minded like them. One way to do is it is to check their social media accounts such as Facebook and Instagram, follow them , like, share and comment I bet some will appreciate it and even do the same and follow you back. I usually do this and it works for me.
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Some valuable points mentioned here!! 👌
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Thank you so much Vidah 😊. I appreciate your constant support as normal, have a great day🙏
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You’re welcome!
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I like this, the thinking behind it —
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Wow John this means a lot to me. Thank you for your thoughtful and nice comment. Have an awesome day🙏🙏🔥
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thank you; I like your blog; it’s come at the right time —
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Really? Well I am glad it did🙏😁
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Point 2 is so true.
Enlightening article! 👏👏
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Indeed Mark it is an enlightening article and I am delighted that you can relate to point 2. Thank you for stopping by and have a great day🙏
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I very much agree that you should dress for yourself. Wear what you love and don’t think too much about what others are wearing.
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Indeed Pooja, you have understood the main purpose of this blog and in summary, that is what dressing well means. Thank you you for taking time in reading and leaving this comment😉🙏
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My pleasure 😊
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The first two points bode well for photography, too! Thoughtful post, Mthobisi.
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Wow that’s good to know Jane. I admire photography too and fashion makes it so vibrant, that’s why I like taking pictures in my favorite outfits. Thanks for the comment and stay tuned there is a lot of thoughtful blog posts coming this December 🔥🔥😍🙏
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You are very right. We should aspire to shine together not outshine each other.
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Exactly brother. As the quote that is evident for shinning goes like this “United we stand divided we fall”. Thank you for stopping by and wishing you a prosperous month of December🍹🙏
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Great advice, Mthobisi, especially #1. The bottom line is to simply be you.
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Yes Lauren. Thanks for the visit😊🙏
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Wow, so I see you’re increasing your blogging regularity and your commenting game as well, so I can only expect to see more growth in your immediate future. This post seems to have resonated with your audience too, myself included. And dressing for yourself is such an important reminder, because back then, I used to get into skintight jeans just for the sake of it even though it didn’t suit my body. Anyway, thanks for this post!
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Firstly, I appreciate what you said about my improvement in posting and the incoming stats plus comments in my posts, I too am amazed by that and I have grown my blog actually, the future of blogging is safe and secure for me🙏
Secondly, this post is one of the major reasons why all men must dress without competing with anyone because that lets you down and brings depression which is not needed in fashion
Lastly, Thank you Stuart for the support and comment as usual. Have a wonderful week my friend🙏🙏
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